Board Thread:The Panopticon/@comment-1296654-20200630105828/@comment-45314928-20200630114131

I don't think it is "up to preference". that doesnt work on a site like this, and would lead to constant edit warring.

River Song

she married the Doctor, it may have been a ceremony with the Eleventh but she has had adventures with several other incarnations where she identifies him as her husband.

John and Gillian

there are conflicting accounts in regards to John and Gillian - some state that they were the Doctor's grandchildren and therefore they should be in the First and Second's infoboxes, but the only story they shared with the Eighth gave an account where they did not exist at all and so should not be in his infobox.